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Bettina Flitner photographed for 10 days in the brothel « Paradise » in Stuttgart/ Germany. The men, between 21 and 73 answered – and posed for the photos on the beds.
« Why I pay for sex? Women are often a pain in the ass.
They stress me when I haven t got enough time for them.
If I want to fuck I go here – and I leave. That s it. A girlfriend
often bores me after a short time. And to pay for sex has that
certain something. You own the woman. You can do want you
want with her. That is power. My last time? I come to the brothel every six weeks. Sometimes I have sex with the same woman sometimes with another. I like it a bit harder no vanilla sex. »
…………………………Christian, 23, forwarding merchant, single
« My first time in a brothel was four years ago. A date means
a lot of stress and time. In a brothel everything is more
relaxed no lies and no illusions. I can speak honestly I am
single and I don t hurt anybody. I like women with black hair
and brown eyes but no Asian women. I don’t like them at all.
There must be a kind of sympathy between me and the woman
then she also likes it. Sometimes they look at their watch when
you enter the room then you are often fed up. »
…………………..Dung, 28, junior manager of a restaurant, single
« I need much sex. It excites me to have always new women.
I also go to swingers clubs. But there are often old and ugly
women. Sometimes I book a woman from an escort agency.
My type? Black or pale skin. Mulatto or from Latvia. No silicone
breasts and no injected lips. I don t like women who are too
professional I prefer the ones who make it only sometimes.
My last time is one week ago. She said that is was the best
sex ever. 50 Euros. Business as usual. The price-performance
ratio is good here. »
…………………………Guenther, 55, divorced, pub owner, 1 son
« I am to shy to make a move towards women. I am working
at home and I don’t go out often. Sure that’s an imaginary
world here. The men strive for an illusion me too. Sometimes
after the sex the women here say I love you that is only
customer loyalty. Two times I fell in love with a prostitute.
I wanted to be a samaritan who helps her to get out of here.
That is over I don’t fall in love anymore. Now I am always here
because of one woman. We match perfectly at least in bed.
I don’t know anything about her. »
…………………………..Ingo, 43, tax accountant assistant, single
« You do it once. Twice. And then you are used to it. Normally
I have to invite a pretty woman twice for dinner costs 100
Euros and then it probably doesn t work. Here it works always.
I like women from southern countries – from Spain Italy the
Dominican Republic. I also had sex with a Colombian several
times a beautiful woman well-built. She was very passionate
or she was a good actress but she suddenly disappeared.
What a pity. »
……………………………………..Iwan, 65, motor mechanic, single
« Ten years ago I woke up at night and couldn’t get up.
My heart ached the doctor on call came intensive care unit.
At that time I thought that my life can be over tomorrow.
I go the brothel once a week. Since three months I have
always sex with the same woman. Today I spent two hours
with her. The truth is if I go to a club I don’t like the normal
women any longer. The bodies. Here they wear size 34 or 36. »
…………………………Joachim, 58, engineer, separated, 1 daughter
« Why I go the brothel? I would never get women like these
here. And I can overstep the limits here. For example anal
intercourse I wouldn’t have the heart to ask a normal woman
to do it. Costs 100 Euros extra. I don’t like the very young
and very thin girls. They can have normal breast and a little
belly a womanly shape. Since three years I have sex with
the same woman twice a month. My last time? Last week. »
…………………………Kai, 49, bank employee, divorced, 2 children
« I was 17 when I went to a brothel for the first time. With my
first self earned money. To go to such a club is the pure
relaxation for me. No chitchat, the girls are clever and prepared
for your preferences. That can become an addiction. I had a
girlfriend for 4 years but it always comes to light and then it
is over. Now my visit is job-related. With a friend I develop
an internet platform for client alibis where men can buy alibis
traffic accident hospital – everything is possible. »
………………………………………Ralf, 28, computer scientist, single